Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Never look down on anyone.

Lola came from a background that believes in values, though not from a wealthy background, yet she believes she has a bright future ahead of her. She met Alex her husband in the university, he was a young man then with lots of life and committed to the things of God. She observed that he was focused, goal oriented, and optimist about his future with the sound believe that the Lord will take care of it if he keeps doing His will. He proposed, and she gave her consent despite the fact that he was also going through challenges in the area of finance.

Today her choice had paid off; Alex is a good husband to her and a good father to their children. He is still committed to the things of God which he does passionately, God has also been faithful to him in that he was promoted as on of the executive director of the organization that he works with.

You may have come across people who told you the story of a poor beginning and how they didn’t despise their hubby when he came proposing and today they are grateful for getting married to him. The same can also be your story.

Women- are usually attracted to security (a man with a good job, house, car, and who can meet their needs etc.) and will often look down on a man that has nothing tangible that can meet their needs.

Men- on the other hand, tend to go/look for trendy, attractive, and homely ladies. They often look down on ladies who are big in size or less attractive.

King Solomon said, “A person without good sense says bad things about his neighbors. But a wise man knows when to be quiet.” Proverbs 11:12

Some singles have lost treasures that would have been a blessing to their future because they paid too much attention to the container at the neglect of the content. Confucius said, “Everything has its beauty but not everyone sees it.

Femi Fasanya is a talented author and speaker with a message that transcends barriers of age, culture and status. He is a TV presenter and a celebrated speaker in seminars. He is the founder of Singles Affair Ministry and is happily married to Doyin. He can be reached through the following relationshipmatters@gmail.com and 08037257479, for counseling.



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